it's a tough call

personally i do want a wife and children, but at the same time I know for my ideal situation i'd need to be quite wealthy to live away from the city. and in order to afford time with my children so that I don't leave them in the care of educators

current situation (i.e. the average modern worker-consumer) is not ideal, as i'd be risking my children in the school system, pay taxes to fund programs that are effectively weaponised against me, etc. so it's better to not have children in my mind given the common scenario

i'm still working towards the former and i understand that depending on how long that takes I may or may not be able to start a family, but i'd rather not compromise and end up feeding the beast so to speak