Marriage is a union in spirit. Everything else is just paperwork.
Stop focusing on the paperwork. They are still married in spirit, and God understands. Their marriage hasn't come to an end... just the legal status, which doesn't count for much.
She just needs to have him sign medical power of attorney to her. Then she'll have all rights as if still "married in eyes of govt" - they are still married in God's eyes. They were married in a church?
Marriage is a union in spirit. Everything else is just paperwork.
Stop focusing on the paperwork. They are still married in spirit, and God understands. Their marriage hasn't come to an end... just the legal status, which doesn't count for much.
but by divorcing him doesn't she lose her status to be his care taker and call the shots on his care (if he can't) since she is not his wife any more?
She just needs to have him sign medical power of attorney to her. Then she'll have all rights as if still "married in eyes of govt" - they are still married in God's eyes. They were married in a church?