But how many "no fault" could be a cover up for I need to leave his abusive ass but cannot admit what his done because society thinks his "a good bloke"?
I've seen too many women abused by their husbands. It's why I always called marriage *a piece of paper. Only married because my husband was old school.
A certificate doesn't guarantee you love. Sometimes it locks you into a nightmare.
"But how many "no fault" could be a cover up for I need to leave his abusive ass [...]?"
That's an excellent question. How do you think it should be solved while at the same time removing the artificially created financial incentive for man OR woman to lie?
⬆️ this is an important issue for women to figure out bc it's causing younger men to avoid marriage, which in turn is detrimental to women.
Abuse of any kind is not love. If the abuse would've been reported/recorded, do you think it would've prevented future victims? Even one?
If yes then it should've been recorded/reported.
Leaving for no reason is harsh but sure go for it… I'm just saying that there should be NO financial incentive whatsoever. Stay at home dad falls in love with the nanny and wants to run away with her. Fine. "Irreconcilable differences" on the divorce papers, but he doesn't get the house, car, or property that his successful wife bought with her income. The elephant in the room:>>>it might suck to give up the plush lifestyle, but that comes with the territory if you want to leave that provider.
Never in history has marriage been so fraught with financial ruin (for man or woman) as it has been in the last 50 years.
*recorded/reported is also a problem.
It's suspected 40% of police are involved in domestic violence too.
And unfortunately convid lockdowns in Australia and public footage shows it must not be far from true.
Unfortunately life seems to have someone winning at another's expense and someone losing.
Doesn't matter what we seem to design someone loses out.
Agreed u/Maccachook1
The great news is that as the Fourth Turning concludes, society's values and attitudes toward each other are going to radically improve. I think people will see the wisdom in some of our ancestors' traditions and ways. Trad Wives for the win!
But how many "no fault" could be a cover up for I need to leave his abusive ass but cannot admit what his done because society thinks his "a good bloke"? I've seen too many women abused by their husbands. It's why I always called marriage *a piece of paper. Only married because my husband was old school. A certificate doesn't guarantee you love. Sometimes it locks you into a nightmare.
That's an excellent question. How do you think it should be solved while at the same time removing the artificially created financial incentive for man OR woman to lie?
⬆️ this is an important issue for women to figure out bc it's causing younger men to avoid marriage, which in turn is detrimental to women.
Abuse of any kind is not love. If the abuse would've been reported/recorded, do you think it would've prevented future victims? Even one?
If yes then it should've been recorded/reported.
Leaving for no reason is harsh but sure go for it… I'm just saying that there should be NO financial incentive whatsoever. Stay at home dad falls in love with the nanny and wants to run away with her. Fine. "Irreconcilable differences" on the divorce papers, but he doesn't get the house, car, or property that his successful wife bought with her income.
The elephant in the room: >>>it might suck to give up the plush lifestyle, but that comes with the territory if you want to leave that provider.
Never in history has marriage been so fraught with financial ruin (for man or woman) as it has been in the last 50 years.
*recorded/reported is also a problem. It's suspected 40% of police are involved in domestic violence too. And unfortunately convid lockdowns in Australia and public footage shows it must not be far from true. Unfortunately life seems to have someone winning at another's expense and someone losing. Doesn't matter what we seem to design someone loses out.
Agreed u/Maccachook1
The great news is that as the Fourth Turning concludes, society's values and attitudes toward each other are going to radically improve. I think people will see the wisdom in some of our ancestors' traditions and ways.
Trad Wives for the win!