I can understand your frustration, but I think it's important to recognize that race and culture are more complex than they might seem at first glance.

When you say, "There's no fighting because many, if not most, white people agree whenever they are denigrated for their race," I believe this might be an oversimplification of both race and culture.

If you asked every white person what it means to be white, you'd get a wide range of answers. Cultural identity isn't something that can be easily reduced to skin tone or ethnicity. For instance, some white individuals might feel a strong connection to certain aspects of European culture, while others might prioritize different cultural influences based on their personal experiences and preferences.

For example, I know white men who prefer blonde-haired women, while others are more attracted to women with black or red hair. Similarly, some white men might prefer Mexican food over traditional European dishes.

The point is that cultural identity is shaped by a variety of factors, including personal experience and preference, and it's not something that can be universally defined by race or ethnicity alone.

So your frustration might to due to over expecting that all whites think similar and want the same thing.