Being Gen-Z feels like showing up to the party 4 hours after everyone left.
The American dream is dead. Trump said that at the RNC when I was like 10 years old and it's gotten worse every year since. It's frustrating because everyone knows it's bad but there's still so little sympathy. It seems like all that's left of America is this vague idea that you have to work yourself to death so you can buy things. That's literally all we have left that unites us. Working and trying to buy groceries.
What is this country without prosperity?
My generation is trying to figure this out and we're not coming up with much inspiring stuff. With the benefit of hindsight, no one likes the direction our ancestors chose to take. The suburbs that gave our great grandparents the dream of homeownership left us isolated and friendless as kids, sealed up behind a TV screen so our parents could feel like we're safe. The constant economic stimulus that kept our economy growing throughout the 20th century is now like a noose around the neck of anyone who has to buy things regularly in order to survive (aka everyone). The cost of living is brutal and probably not going down unless the economy actually shrinks for a while. We've transitioned from a labor economy to an ownership economy as boomers retired and invested their savings in real estate and the stock market. It no longer pays to work. College is useless. Our society is overly bureaucratized and discrimination against white people and men is openly celebrated. Anyone who doesn't fit into DEI HR culture is effectively banned from participating in the mainstream economy.
No one is happy. Liberals aren't happy. Conservatives aren't happy. Men and women are at each other's throats but equally miserable for different reasons. We have no culture, no third spaces to meet people and forge lasting relationships. Most people are single, lonely and completely disgusted by one another. Everyone I know is mentally ill to some degree. It's really bad. I don't think older people fully understand the caliber of people who will inherit this world.
I think the negativity will only stop when the direction of our civilization completely changes. There's no making our current trajectory work, under any circumstances.
CONSTANT GROWTH IS NOT SUSTAINABLE. Constant change, constant agitation is not normal. It's not normal for every generation to die in a world that's completely unrecognizable from the one they were born into. It's not normal that our pattern of life is constantly being messed with for the sake of theoretical progress. It's not normal to feel like you're on the clock 24/7, constantly surveilled, constantly accounted for. The feeling that time is speeding up, that every moment needs to be filled with some meaningless distraction. THIS IS NOT NORMAL. This is not healthy. Our birthrates are falling off because this world is not appropriate for human beings to live in.
Consumerism has to die. Liberalism (in the classical and modern sense) needs to be retired. Even rationality in the sense we know of today has to go. Inefficiency is what makes life home for human beings.
I don't want to hear people call this idealistic nonsense when our culture is visibly dying before our eyes. The status quo and the 20th century frame of reference has been discredited, as hard as that is for some people to accept. Change is our only option and it's inevitable at this point.
Conservatives will have to articulate a vision of our future that goes beyond capitalist consumerism or else we're going to become a third world communist shithole. New ideas are needed. We have to drastically expand our minds beyond what we've been conditioned to believe, or humanity is truly doomed.
Rant over.
I'm struck by the exasperation in your post. I honestly feel for you friend.
If you want to be happy, you need to go back. You cannot hope in anyway to gain happiness in a world wallowing in filth. You cannot hope to become happy without God the Father blessing your life, without Jesus Christ, without the Holy Spirit.
Faith in Christ Jesus is the most important thing you can have. The world is drowning in depravity as the liberal world order has removed the author of the moral law from education. This is the result of an increasingly shameless world. If you don't know Jesus Christ, you need him, now more than ever. There is none like him, and a relationship with him defines your life. Understanding that God exists, and loves you, and has expectations for your conduct, and abidance in him, and he in you, is the most important thing you can do. You will be lost forever without him, not just in this life. Your citizenship is not supposed to be of this world.
The church is supposed to be the center of your life. It's the most beautiful and wonderful thing outside of Christ Jesus, and my wife, that I have. You are supposed to work alongside your neighbor, you are supposed to build a community together, for you to meet a women whom you can love, and build a life with, that is focused on Christ. I will say it again. You cannot ever hope to be okay, to be content, without Jesus Christ.
Christians do not subscribe to the idea that more stuff is going to make us happy. We might want item A, or B, but to store it up is sin, why store things that moth and rust will utterly destroy, or that will be burned up in the fire to come? Trust in God is the only way to be okay, to be happy.
We are desperately trying to reach the youth, put aside the filth and embrace the absolution of Jesus Christ. He is real. He lived. The Bible is accurate both historically and prophetically. Investigate it. Put the word to the test, read it in context. Jesus is who he said it is. His apostles all died horrible, excruciating deaths, except John, whom they tried to boil alive in oil. These men, no man, facing his death will hold on to a falsehood, if rejecting it could save his lie.
Jesus lived, he died, and he rose again. Jesus is the Son of God, and God revealed in the flesh. Jesus is Lord. He is the Addonai of the Bible, the awesome and mighty creator;
Things that won't make you happy:
The only thing that will make you happy and appreciate life, is Jesus.