I think it's more that, inherently they do love their kids, but their version of love has been completely corrupted. Someone can still love something but go about things in the wrong way or for the wrong reasons. I still think the sentiment is there. For example, everyone wants safe drinking water, clean air and safe cities and schools for their kids. That's something that all sides and those in-between could get behind. How either side goes about things is what makes the difference, despite the core sentiment being the same. This is just my opinion, anyway.