Yep when they say "men need to be more in touch with their feelings" it's because they want us to act more like women so they can use the same manipulation mechanisms.

My wife mentioned that her lefty brother was going to be running late today for something he was supposed to do with her because he had a therapy appointment that morning, I not jokingly told her that I was heading out to therapy as well that morning with Dr Barbell. Dr Barbell never tried to convince me to cut my junk off, he tells me to do at least two more reps.