I know we love the patriarchy around her

But girls are the best. My wife and I would only hope for girls if we take that step one day. Daughters are underrated culturally and it is mindboggling.

In seriousness though...if you have to vaccinate, and are not willing to brave vaccine free, look up a 1970s vaccine schedule and stick to that. The current schedule is 300x longer. And you can also request the older previously approved vaccines for a lot of things, because from what I know, precurors to mrna (not mrna but part of the tech) and heavy metals are more prevalent in newer combo vaccines