It’s a red line. I went through this when they threatened to fire me if I didn’t get vaxxed, I knew it was a possibility for our newborn when I saw my sister go through a similar situation in a different location. We were extremely lucky to have a somewhat hesitant but accepting doctor who will ask every time but doesn’t give push back when we tell him what we want. However, if it meant having to find a new doctor then so be it. I know that’s a very cavalier attitude towards it, but at the end of the day it’s a gift to know where your healthcare team stands and what they may or may not try to push on you.