It's actually sad, but she did it to herself. Either way it's not easy and as many others I'm in the same situation with my daughter. I just wonder after Trump wins if she's going to reach out or if it should be me that reaches out. But also wonder if I reach out she won't answer and think I'm just going to throw it back in her face. At least it feels like that despite she knows that's never been my style. Interesting times...