I'm in the same boat. I wouldn't say my wife is smarter than me. She is fast asleep. She has a master's while I have a bachelor's. (her education was paid for while I had to pay for mine) My wife lives in the present. This is really good because she NEVER digs up the past like other women will. Her mind is much faster than mine though I don't think it is as deep as mine. At least my wife isn't woke. Still, I (edit: she) can't get past that TDS wall. The whole "grab them by the pussy thing". Fucking lying media. It wasn't "You can grab them by the pussy". It was more like "They will let you grab them by the pussy". (if you listen for the context)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?app=desktop&v=WhsSzIS84ks

The funny thing is that I have a picture on the wall of us when we first started dating. We were in a bar where one guy would play the piano and such. Well, right in front of us the guy that played the piano reached down the front of this woman's pants and literally grabbed her by the pussy. She let him.

Though you and I can read between the lines our wives just can't.