I shared this with family yesterday…my nephew that’s maybe 30 YO replied all that he doesn’t want to be on the email list and that it’s not nice, wah wah etc etc…people are having problems accepting it and feelings are hurt and they’re afraid…
O…M…F…G…
I almost feel a little sorry for sending it…
Almost…lololol. Adding more ice to my liberal tears insulated mug with another splash of rye…whatta week it’s been!
I remember when I was kid and in sports we were taught to be gracious Losers AND Winners.One time we played a team and one of the girls in line was saying you suck instead of good game. I got in huge trouble for stopping the line yelling if we suck then how come we moped the floor with you? and confronting her. She tried to initially pretend I miss heard but my team mates backed me up. She ended up shedding crocodile tears and it was a huge ordeal- because she MADE it a huge ordeal. Years later we played again and guess what she was still at it. That time my coach backed me up. Next year no you suck only good game. I do think there are individuals genuinely terrified because of lies and I genuinely feel bad for them but I know there are pot stirrers looking to play the victim and from my experience they only stop if they are exposed. I am struggling hard with judge not and that is the truth
On some level I think it is actually healing. Laughing at someone is way better than hating them or fearing them. Kinda hard to be scared of a nebulous “they” when you can poke fun. Take out intimidation and now you can start healing and they can overcome their delusions of grandeur and make some real connections.
I shared this with family yesterday…my nephew that’s maybe 30 YO replied all that he doesn’t want to be on the email list and that it’s not nice, wah wah etc etc…people are having problems accepting it and feelings are hurt and they’re afraid…
O…M…F…G…
I almost feel a little sorry for sending it…
Almost…lololol. Adding more ice to my liberal tears insulated mug with another splash of rye…whatta week it’s been!
I remember when I was kid and in sports we were taught to be gracious Losers AND Winners.One time we played a team and one of the girls in line was saying you suck instead of good game. I got in huge trouble for stopping the line yelling if we suck then how come we moped the floor with you? and confronting her. She tried to initially pretend I miss heard but my team mates backed me up. She ended up shedding crocodile tears and it was a huge ordeal- because she MADE it a huge ordeal. Years later we played again and guess what she was still at it. That time my coach backed me up. Next year no you suck only good game. I do think there are individuals genuinely terrified because of lies and I genuinely feel bad for them but I know there are pot stirrers looking to play the victim and from my experience they only stop if they are exposed. I am struggling hard with judge not and that is the truth
Drink their tears. Meme them until they cry and meme they crying. Let's GO!
On some level I think it is actually healing. Laughing at someone is way better than hating them or fearing them. Kinda hard to be scared of a nebulous “they” when you can poke fun. Take out intimidation and now you can start healing and they can overcome their delusions of grandeur and make some real connections.
OH we do not hate them, they hate us, and it eats them up from the insides out.
I feel disgust, not hate...
Sadly I think your right