I brought it up because it was a traumatic experience of her childhood, about which she was continually sensitive. It was not off-putting to me, or I wouldn't have fallen in love with her. Why would you be any different from the people who were unkind to her, as you are unkind to Alex Jones? It is hard for me to tell, since you make a great defense of blurting out uncompassionate remarks about Jones after he has gone through a hugely stressing experience.