"Off putting"? The guy goes through one a hell of a day of totally high-stakes legal combat and comes out of it...probably nerves shot, but still able to speak coherently, and you think that's "off putting"? Just amazing.
Emotional stress can definitely affect tics. If the body's adrenaline is high, then muscle reflexes can be exaggerated. So, if you came across an auto accident and a victim is gory and bleeding, you could find that "off putting"? It would only mean that you have no compassion and are unwilling to cut some slack for the absence of a beautiful appearance.
By the way, I was commenting ONLY on your reaction to his appearance. My late spouse had a congenital birth defect in which her right hand was no more than a paw. It was traumatic growing up with that. She had to learn how to do anything dextrous (like writing) with her left hand. Adults were decent enough not to mention it in public. I can only imagine you would find that "off putting."
That is conflating 2 very...actually 3 very different situations.
And making a false equivocation.
Yes, one can come across a mangled person from a car accident and find it off putting
at the same time you can have compassion for that person
They AREN'T THE SAME THING
In your logic means seeing and saying a truth negates the possibility of cutting slack or giving compassion. Bullshit. In the army you see all types of grotesque shit and still love your fellow soldier and further, have the honesty to joke about it later among one another (with the injured soldier and buddies).
Someone born with a birth defect could be off putting and that person can still be loved by the same person. Hell, the smell of a dirty diaper is off putting - that doesn't mean you don't love your baby.
Stop making this bigger than it is. Stop making it about you. And stop virtue signaling.
"Off putting"? The guy goes through one a hell of a day of totally high-stakes legal combat and comes out of it...probably nerves shot, but still able to speak coherently, and you think that's "off putting"? Just amazing.
Emotional stress can definitely affect tics. If the body's adrenaline is high, then muscle reflexes can be exaggerated. So, if you came across an auto accident and a victim is gory and bleeding, you could find that "off putting"? It would only mean that you have no compassion and are unwilling to cut some slack for the absence of a beautiful appearance.
By the way, I was commenting ONLY on your reaction to his appearance. My late spouse had a congenital birth defect in which her right hand was no more than a paw. It was traumatic growing up with that. She had to learn how to do anything dextrous (like writing) with her left hand. Adults were decent enough not to mention it in public. I can only imagine you would find that "off putting."
That is conflating 2 very...actually 3 very different situations. And making a false equivocation.
They AREN'T THE SAME THING
In your logic means seeing and saying a truth negates the possibility of cutting slack or giving compassion. Bullshit. In the army you see all types of grotesque shit and still love your fellow soldier and further, have the honesty to joke about it later among one another (with the injured soldier and buddies).
Stop making this bigger than it is. Stop making it about you. And stop virtue signaling.