it is what it is, but even getting money that is supposed to used for your kid, you repurpose it to pay your mortgage. WTF.
Makes me think of my B-in-Law, got divorced years ago, made good money and had to pay ex $1500/month for their daughter. He was always buying her clothes and back to school above and beyond that, as the Ex got a boat, a ski-doo and some other toys with her new BF. He was pissed and I could see why.
it is what it is, but even getting money that is supposed to used for your kid, you repurpose it to pay your mortgage. WTF.
Makes me think of my B-in-Law, got divorced years ago, made good money and had to pay ex $1500/month for their daughter. He was always buying her clothes and back to school above and beyond that, as the Ex got a boat, a ski-doo and some other toys with her new BF. He was pissed and I could see why.