I commented on this with friends while at dinner. They no longer talk to us and we're super mad. I had made the observation about having strangers raising your children. They chose to be offended and take my observation personally. That's on them. We chose to raise our children ourselves. At the time I was observing that it makes no sense to payfor daycare and have your wages go to paying for daycare? Common sense, but no I was a mean person pointing out how ridiculous this was.