Isn't everyone at some time, attracted chemically to a person who would be WRONG for him or her? If RIGHT for him or her, the social circle may or may not be determinative??
YES a MAN has to suppress those chemical responses of attraction, that is what a man is! otherwise he will be a slave to his chemical desires, whereas he really wants and needs a good woman to be his loyal wife and to raise HIS children.
It takes a couple being attracted to each other. Not necessarily the presumed norm of physical standards of beauty.
Actually appalling behavior! And there is a "type" of back-talking black women who are rewarded for rudeness, loudness, and foul language . . . They are rewarding the wrong role models . . . [Nephew recently married a classy black woman he met teaching overseas; wives of black men were the only baby-sitters my kid ever had when I was on active duty. Said kid married a different "race".]
I have said since my Army days that I don't believe black men actually vote for those unhinged black women who keep getting elected . . .
He understands that some white and black people will not like this at all.
He understands that he might get dirty looks or even name calls.
He understands that his mixed kids might get some bad treatment from other kids.
Even with those risk.
That's still low risk compared to dating black women like the ones in that video.
This is why I think God allowed for mixed kids to happen.
Yes... it's not ideal for a lot of people.
But just like a burning building.
People will flee at some point.
Black men like me pick to leave the burning building and start somewhere else.
The options to find a woman that looks like him is slim pickings.
Isn't everyone at some time, attracted chemically to a person who would be WRONG for him or her? If RIGHT for him or her, the social circle may or may not be determinative??
YES a MAN has to suppress those chemical responses of attraction, that is what a man is! otherwise he will be a slave to his chemical desires, whereas he really wants and needs a good woman to be his loyal wife and to raise HIS children.
It takes a couple being attracted to each other. Not necessarily the presumed norm of physical standards of beauty.
Good luck, fren, in your love life!
I see your points.
When people say mixed dating is not natural.
They are ignoring the first stage of attraction between a man and woman. I feel bad for people who get angry about interracial dating.
They are ignoring that all interracial dating is.
Is a man and woman who are physically attracted to each other. Nature generated chemical responses between the two.
Now it will take will like minded personalities to determine if it works long term.
ArmyLady,
This is exactly why black men like myself date outside of our race.
https://x.com/stillgray/status/1863392224345506248
Actually appalling behavior! And there is a "type" of back-talking black women who are rewarded for rudeness, loudness, and foul language . . . They are rewarding the wrong role models . . . [Nephew recently married a classy black woman he met teaching overseas; wives of black men were the only baby-sitters my kid ever had when I was on active duty. Said kid married a different "race".]
I have said since my Army days that I don't believe black men actually vote for those unhinged black women who keep getting elected . . .
I agree.
So when you see a black man with a white woman.
He understands that some white and black people will not like this at all. He understands that he might get dirty looks or even name calls. He understands that his mixed kids might get some bad treatment from other kids.
Even with those risk. That's still low risk compared to dating black women like the ones in that video.
This is why I think God allowed for mixed kids to happen. Yes... it's not ideal for a lot of people.
But just like a burning building. People will flee at some point.
Black men like me pick to leave the burning building and start somewhere else.
The options to find a woman that looks like him is slim pickings.
You are not unique. A lot of black service men came back from e.g. Germany and Korea with white or Asian wives . . .
And there is Clarence Thomas, and others who have married white women who appreciate them.