So sorry for your experience. When my grandfather got put in the nursing home he was far enough along to not notice he wasn’t at home. But they nearly killed him with haldol, I believe, saying he’d been agitated. My grandmother and mother went every day and monitored everything like hawks. They gave a flu shot against his wishes that made him sick, too. He was a fighter, disabled from WWII. He too ended not being able to feed himself. He got to under 90 pounds before he passed, no meds that hospice likes to push, he did it in God’s time, not hospice’s.
So sorry for your experience. When my grandfather got put in the nursing home he was far enough along to not notice he wasn’t at home. But they nearly killed him with haldol, I believe, saying he’d been agitated. My grandmother and mother went every day and monitored everything like hawks. They gave a flu shot against his wishes that made him sick, too. He was a fighter, disabled from WWII. He too ended not being able to feed himself. He got to under 90 pounds before he passed, no meds that hospice likes to push, he did it in God’s time, not hospice’s.