Not to be harsh but that's a silly hill to die on. It's ok to have a different opinion than somebody else. Healthy debate is fine, arguing and tearing shit apart over something this menial, no. Go make things right. Communication and an open mind are your friends in this situation.
The fact that I thought the hill was silly was what started the fight.
She needed me to care about the silly hill because her father did. All I had to do was listen and care about his concerns. . . I could have disagreed later. . .
I've apologized and made amends, but the pain is still there. Time and space for healing is what's next. I just need to release this because it is tearing me up inside.
Sounds to me like there were other issues prior to this. If there wasn't, just move on. Disagreements happen in relationships, it's normal and it's ok. I do wish you the best and hope y'all work it out.
Not to be harsh but that's a silly hill to die on. It's ok to have a different opinion than somebody else. Healthy debate is fine, arguing and tearing shit apart over something this menial, no. Go make things right. Communication and an open mind are your friends in this situation.
The fact that I thought the hill was silly was what started the fight.
She needed me to care about the silly hill because her father did. All I had to do was listen and care about his concerns. . . I could have disagreed later. . .
I've apologized and made amends, but the pain is still there. Time and space for healing is what's next. I just need to release this because it is tearing me up inside.
Hopefully someone can learn from my mistake.
Sounds to me like there were other issues prior to this. If there wasn't, just move on. Disagreements happen in relationships, it's normal and it's ok. I do wish you the best and hope y'all work it out.
Yea that’s where my head was at, either that or this is an age or terminal illness thing where a loss of a friend is way more impactful
Thanks! It is just time for us to separate a bit. We'll be friends again once some time passes.