Q said there are cures. Update of my treatment using Keto diet, fenben, etc.
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This is very useful. I understand the MIL situation as well. I have the same conflict with Mr. Ofsnark. Lord please let me get this guy healthy and give me the strength to let go because MIL business is the worst business. Hugs and thank you I will pass this on and use it to help my boy.
SO SORRY! It is, indeed the worst business, and yes the husband IS caught in the middle, causing him no little discomfort [understatement]; but Mom always is first.
Since you get this situation, I'll explain a bit of the other avenue which greatly helped me resolve the conflict when spouse-anon would get angry or judgemental with me about "his mother". [He never calls her mom, it is always "my mother" which seems to me a bit formal . . . ]
Well, there are no coincidences. I was reading old National Geographics before getting rid of them. July 2011 had a description of native potatoes of Peru and Bolivia. One was called "Makes the Daughter-in-law Cry". OH MY, I thought, there is a reason this potato has this name! and it speaks of the MIL son DIL conflicts!
So I did some searches. Don't remember the links, but there is lots of info and easy to find. Bottom line: the prospective bride had to peel this bumpy potato with lots of eyes with a knife in an unbroken strip to prove she was worthy of marrying the son!
OH MY! Once I read about it, this potato peeling explained in a nutshell the disordered relationship between son and mother which allows them to harm and torture the DIL!! It became clear as day to me!
My response: "I am not going to peel your stupid potatoes!" [I always cook potatoes in the skin anyway.]
IOW I am not part of their game, where the son and his mother get to torture the DIL!
I am NOT peeling their stupid potatoes! HA! Well this has helped me greatly.
HOPING for your guys' healings!!! Thanks fren!
Good for you!!! That is a particularly toxic game of unrealistic expectations and shame and guilt as a reward no matter what you do.If you catch my drift. I will be in prayer for your continued healing and looking forward to updates.
You cannot please someone who will not be pleased. That is the trap. I am not going to be the scapegoat for their distorted relationship. They choose to not examine or change it. Worse for them than me as I see it.
Prayers back at you! Yes let's give updates!