Bonhoeffer's Theory of Stupidity - 5 minute video that explains why you can't wake people up by using facts on them. Also, stupid people are worse than evil people.
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🧠 These people are STUPID!
Come down from you high hobby horse.
Stupid people don't know they are stupid and the many that are stupid due to lack of capacity can't be expected to understand. They need a reason to go along on the better path, not a reason why.
Remember the "frustrating AF" is you own lack of capacity " understand ...(them)."
Empathy like all conceptual only ideas requires higher IQ and the effort to learn about others.