Imma be real, really take a hard look at your stance. I was 9 but my older cousin was sexually abusing me, I liked it in my kid brain. I even got off a few times. I wanted it and I liked who was doing it, again at the time. Does that make it less abuse? No. I was a CHILD, even if i was 14 its still not acceptable, as I am still a CHILD/MINOR. And its wrong for not just the incestrious aspect, but the fact that my older cousin was abusing me. I lost my virginity because if it. I never had the choice because I didnt know what sex was I was just told at first that we were having fun and playing as doctors. But hey I liked it and I kept going back. I guess that makes it better. Because I had a smile on my face after.
Seriously. I dont mean this to bash over your head. But your attitude/justification toward that is how more sexually fucked up people are made, I had to do a lot of work alongside GOD to heal the things that happened to me. Because what you wrote reads as no one cares about the abuse, at least you scored some.
Sex at an early age and / or outside of a committed relationship really messes people up. Unfortunately, most people don't realize how much. The evidence comes much later in the inability to pair bond, infidelity, broken relationships, sexual dysfunction, depression, etc. People have been brainwashed into believing otherwise.
Imma be real, really take a hard look at your stance. I was 9 but my older cousin was sexually abusing me, I liked it in my kid brain. I even got off a few times. I wanted it and I liked who was doing it, again at the time. Does that make it less abuse? No. I was a CHILD, even if i was 14 its still not acceptable, as I am still a CHILD/MINOR. And its wrong for not just the incestrious aspect, but the fact that my older cousin was abusing me. I lost my virginity because if it. I never had the choice because I didnt know what sex was I was just told at first that we were having fun and playing as doctors. But hey I liked it and I kept going back. I guess that makes it better. Because I had a smile on my face after.
Seriously. I dont mean this to bash over your head. But your attitude/justification toward that is how more sexually fucked up people are made, I had to do a lot of work alongside GOD to heal the things that happened to me. Because what you wrote reads as no one cares about the abuse, at least you scored some.
Please just give some thought on these words.
Sex at an early age and / or outside of a committed relationship really messes people up. Unfortunately, most people don't realize how much. The evidence comes much later in the inability to pair bond, infidelity, broken relationships, sexual dysfunction, depression, etc. People have been brainwashed into believing otherwise.