This is what God says our response should be. Tell me this is not hard but it is truth.

Rom 12:9  Let love be without dissimulation. Abhor that which is evil; cleave to that which is good.  Rom 12:10  Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love; in honour preferring one another;  Rom 12:11  Not slothful in business; fervent in spirit; serving the Lord;  Rom 12:12  Rejoicing in hope; patient in tribulation; continuing instant in prayer;  Rom 12:13  Distributing to the necessity of saints; given to hospitality.  Rom 12:14  Bless them which persecute you: bless, and curse not.  Rom 12:15  Rejoice with them that do rejoice, and weep with them that weep.  Rom 12:16  Be of the same mind one toward another. Mind not high things, but condescend to men of low estate. Be not wise in your own conceits.  Rom 12:17  Recompense to no man evil for evil. Provide things honest in the sight of all men.  Rom 12:18  If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men.  Rom 12:19  Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord.  Rom 12:20  Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head.  Rom 12:21  Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.