Giving to my church, both monetarily and time/effort is one of the key ways I continue to grow with and be a part of it. It seems very odd to view that as a burden or negative to me.
Actually you are wrong on all counts here.
The pastor does contribute to the church, just like the rest of the members. And he does work right along side other volunteers.
100%. They will do illegal things under the guise of "we didn't have a choice! We don't have people that will do it otherwise!" They let family members stay in the parsonage rent free (and illegally) because, well, it just wasn't being used and it's paid off, so what is the harm????
They will control their neighbors in covid, because they are scared and it's easier to control a small group than to control a larger one.
They will use money unwisely because the congregation is their neighbors, and who will say anything?
Small churches suck. I have had experience with two, and both made me realize I will still with the anonymity in a larger church.
The problem with small churches they'll lean on you.
Ask you to be involved, beg you for money, do this, do that.
No thanks. Been there done that way too many times.
Also if you check out a church never fill out a welcome card.
Even if they say we'll never bother you, but they will.
I found the small church refreshing.
Look at my reply to sipow.
Giving to my church, both monetarily and time/effort is one of the key ways I continue to grow with and be a part of it. It seems very odd to view that as a burden or negative to me.
Does your pastor "tithe" that 10% which they hammer the congregation with the same as with you ? Or do they get off Scott free?
Do they work willingly and not for filthy lucre or receiving a salary (money) like you do? Or do they get off Scott free?
When they ask of you to do a chore or major task of resealing a roof are they up there with you guys working too?
I am quite sure the answer is a resounding NO. If this is the case,
Sorry friend you're a patsy.
Actually you are wrong on all counts here. The pastor does contribute to the church, just like the rest of the members. And he does work right along side other volunteers.
That's unusual for a pastor to roll up his sleeves. I have not seen that before.
No, he's probably a faithful servant in the community. You have NO CLUE whether this individual is a "patsy" or not.
Honestly, reading your comments, YOU are the patsy, and you're angry about it.
Whatever dude
Of course I was a patsy. A big patsy to these big business churches but then I caught on.
The only thing that gets me angry is when I've been duped.
Especially when many of their teachings have been a lie.
100%. They will do illegal things under the guise of "we didn't have a choice! We don't have people that will do it otherwise!" They let family members stay in the parsonage rent free (and illegally) because, well, it just wasn't being used and it's paid off, so what is the harm???? They will control their neighbors in covid, because they are scared and it's easier to control a small group than to control a larger one.
They will use money unwisely because the congregation is their neighbors, and who will say anything? Small churches suck. I have had experience with two, and both made me realize I will still with the anonymity in a larger church.