I absolutely have the same revulsions for her abnormally calm demeanor and perfect speech with nary a tear to dab at. I feel like she is entirely too practiced and eloquent, as though she had weeks to write, rehearse and perfect her speeches following his death. She uses a lot of actor's tropes. That is, she opens her eyes wide and moves her eyes back and forth without turning her head to call attention to her beautiful ice-colored irises. The wide-eyed heavenward gazing she does as she whispers Charlie's name is just too much. She smiles beautifully and broadly as if she's been raised on the stage. It's all just impossibly unnatural.

My red flags are popping up, but I truly hope I am wrong.