She gets 6-8 months from me. I discount whatever she does that looks weird for those first 6-8 months. I watched my mom after my dad died, I know how I was after my husband died. Neither of us saw them murdered in front of us. It's a different grief losing your spouse. Until you lose yours, you don't have much room to say shit. Does that mean I'm not watching? Will I be surprised if there's more? Nope. Just means I've seen widows do really strange shit after just losing their spouse.
She gets 6-8 months from me. I discount whatever she does that looks weird for those first 6-8 months. I watched my mom after my dad died, I know how I was after my husband died. Neither of us saw them murdered in front of us. It's a different grief losing your spouse. Until you lose yours, you don't have much room to say shit. Does that mean I'm not watching? Will I be surprised if there's more? Nope. Just means I've seen widows do really strange shit after just losing their spouse.