We lost twins during our very long and frustrating first try, and through that I’d say that with God seeing us through that might have been the closest we had ever become. Life makes no sense sometimes even when you try and find peace in knowing God has a plan. I pray for their mental strength, physical strength, and the rough road that comes ahead and the courage to keep trying when the time comes. I also pray for you and any others that will be called upon to find the right words or the silence to listen and just be there for support :-/