Well, men and women are different. And, definitionally, it is because women are inherently feminine, whereas men are demanded to be masculine (and that is not to say men are inherently masculine. Inheritance, as a concept, is feminine in nature).

Men have to become masculine. If that doesn't happen, they are at a distinct disadvantage when up against women in the long run.

What you are experiencing is what happens when we weaken masculinity. And that starts with, first, fraternities. The "old boys clubs" existed for a reason (and was also attacked for a reason - both justified in their happenings).

The next was a direct attack on our higher reasoning - our definitions, our higher institutions of learning, our governments.

They do this so that they can control our base masculine virtues - which is our ability to create, and our ability to produce.

They can't eliminate masculinity in its entirety - otherwise, who is around to pay the bills? The reality is women don't need to understand this - they know it, inherently (as they are feminine).

Problem is...most men enter into marriages having zero undestanding of any of this -and it leads to marriages like yours.

But the best thing is, as a man, you can always take control of yourself. You can always cut out that which bothers you. You can always begin to develop your relationship with God (which is the basis of your higher rationalization).

And the from that, you can find like minded men that you can develop relationships with, and regain your fraternity.

Being born a man means discovering and walking this path. The universe demands it - and the women in our lives push us in this manner.

And the way they do it is rarely pleasurable.

That's why wives, in particular, were always lamented. Because after all - you can't live with them, you can't live without them.

And that's just true.

Develop the faith, brother. Find your friends. Put your relationship with God as the priority. Everything else will begin to shape up.