Here is a tip. She knows the answers. Find the questions to ask her for the right answer. I woke my mother up when I asked her what martial law would look like. She described it. Then I asked, would the government telling people cause panic or would just doing it make it easier to implement? Why is the national guard in DC with a fence around Congress? I just think it's odd they did that. Then... Let it sit. Seed planted. Then do another the next day, but casual. No force needed. She knows the answer. It's just time to see the tree grow.