Oh yeah, I understand fully. I once had a baffling experience where a black cashier girl went out of her way to say I was really nice to her.. I was just treating her like any human being who isn't a shitbag. I seriously think the preconception of "white people all want to oppress minorities" creates as much division as anything, so it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy when you can't question their victimhood and it amplifies into a much bigger deal, now reinforced by every Communist corporate entity...