There are good places to find women and bad places to find women. A bar is a bad place. Church is a good place. If you're much past 18, another good place is the local community college.

Take some courses. You will meet some adult women who are trying to better themselves and are smarter than average. That's how I found my wife over 30 years ago.

Having Asperger's, I was surprised that I managed to get her to go out with me, and then really surprised less than a year later when marriage happened. I just don't know how I did that.

I have been under-educated in the school system right into college, and because I didn't have a magic piece of paper, I could never get a really good job. I finally quit work when I was 50 and had enough stupid micromanaging and was financially able. I haven't missed work at all. I educate myself with my huge library and what I find online.

Go take a college course and let it be known you're in the market. Somebody will help match you up, just somebody helped me.

Don't ever give up, or "they" win.