Been living with a full on TDS NPC White Guilt poster child (grown man) for the past year. We were pretty good friends before we moved in together at the very beginning of covid when I didn't know how big of a scam it was. We've been silently resenting each other for quite some time. I resent him for doing absolutely nothing helpful around the house, and he resents me because I don't wear a mask.
Last night, we finally got into it. He started screaming at me and calling me all sorts of things, and... It felt good? Super weird. I just looked at him and smiled as he flew his middle fingers high and repeatedly said "fuck you".
Only one month left. I'm thinking about doing nothing around the house to make a point. The trash will pile up, the dishes won't be done, the floors will be disgusting... Not sure if I want to live like a degenerate to make a point to someone who won't learn though.
If you can, move out in secret on a day they aren’t home.
Oh yeah baby. I'd probably do that. Safest
I’ve done it. Packed up everything in advance in my bedroom. Started “cleaning” everything in the rest of the apartment and putting it in storage bins. Let them borrow some of my furniture, took their stuff off and took that too. Moved out in probably 1.5 hours when they weren’t home. Had most of the stuff and took everything even the trash can. (Don’t be a jerk to your roommate).
Good luck to OP.
I definitely did too much for them. I hope it served as a good lesson. Cutting someone else off actually got them to turn themselves around and I heard from them a few years later about it. Living with that person though changed my perspective on divorce. I never want home to be hell. If it came to the worst, I can't live like that again. I won't be unkind to myself. I don't think that will happen though. I'm stronger and more self respecting person now. I hope that for everyone—respect yourself an important amount and keep boundaries with others.