Visited my aunt today. She’s vaxxed and a full-on Covidiot, I’m obviously not. I’m getting married soon-ish and this is how the conversation went:
Her: “people would feel more comfortable coming if you were vaccinated before the wedding”
Me: “well that’s a personal decision and I won’t be coerced.”
Her: “what if you get Covid and have to cancel?”
Me: (in my head) “I had Covid already over a year ago, and produced antibodies with no illness after being heavily exposed around the holidays. I’m not fucking getting Covid again ?”
Me: “I’m not letting that influence my decision, either.”
She didn’t get huffy with me, thank God, but HOW DARE SHE try to tell me that people won’t come to MY wedding if I’m not vaccinated? I’m home now but damn I wish I would’ve told her “well there’s money saved on catering costs”.
These people...if any of my family refuses to come to my wedding because I’m not vaxxed, well they can kick rocks. This is weeding out the people in my life who care more about me complying with the status quo than sharing in the happiest day of my life. Fuck ‘em. End rant.
Luckily my family hasn't said as much, but my fiancé's family wants her to be vaxxed for our wedding. I'm praying she can resist, or that they don't force her since she had to go to the er this morning! I'll pray for you and I ask y'all to pray for us and everyone.
If your fiancee is against the vax, and bows to family pressure, you don't want her.
It will only expand from there.
No kids.
I'm glad that she has not and so far she seems to get that the vax is WACK. I just hope her family doesn't reject us because of it. My family is half cucked and got the vax but both her and I have held out even with crazy social pressure in very liberal areas.
I’ll pray for you too, and your lovely fiancée! There’s enough pressure on us as brides, we don’t need people trying to manipulate our personal medical decision too.