I already knew my Mom was going to, and she couldnt be talked out of it. But my dad was the surprise. Last month he said he wouldn't, but it seems he's changed his mind so his company won't fire him, either directly or indirectly.
Sucks, but I'm still holding the line and won't be pressured into taking it.
Im sorry for your loss. I had 1 sister and dad take the cocktail. I know how u feel