Hi everyone,
I'm looking for some tips re: how to have a close, connected relationship with my wife who's asleep. We have been drifting further apart since I started waking up since November. Do any of you have a GOOD STRONG CONNNECTED relationship with your spouse who's asleep? Any tips?
I'm not looking for tips on how to wake her up because often my attempts to red-pill has caused even more disconnect. I'm looking for tips for how to have a GOOD STRONG CONNECTED relationship despite the awake vs. asleep difference.
For context of our difference, my wife was double-vaxxed ASAP and disregards my conclusions about anything when people in authoritative positions say otherwise. We're both Christians, but it's different now. I think I was spiritually woken up and I see the world differently. She's asleep and not interested in waking up and I feel like she wants me to fall back asleep in order to connect. Problem is.. I don't want to go back to sleep. Any tips are appreciated!
And strong women...in my family I am the one that is awake and have been for MANY years, which has given our family a sense of marching to our own beat. Fortunately, my husband and married kids are very aware of things because of me but they still have to come to their own conclusion about how to think and what to do and I have to allow them that personal responsibility. I would like to say that works out 100% but it doesn't. I really don't mind being the main researcher because I would do so for myself anyway. Like you, I skip a lot of the details but try to keep everyone in the loop generally. We all have to be realistic and accepting of everyone else's difference in how they react to truth. I just do the best I can with what I've got.