Hi everyone,
I'm looking for some tips re: how to have a close, connected relationship with my wife who's asleep. We have been drifting further apart since I started waking up since November. Do any of you have a GOOD STRONG CONNNECTED relationship with your spouse who's asleep? Any tips?
I'm not looking for tips on how to wake her up because often my attempts to red-pill has caused even more disconnect. I'm looking for tips for how to have a GOOD STRONG CONNECTED relationship despite the awake vs. asleep difference.
For context of our difference, my wife was double-vaxxed ASAP and disregards my conclusions about anything when people in authoritative positions say otherwise. We're both Christians, but it's different now. I think I was spiritually woken up and I see the world differently. She's asleep and not interested in waking up and I feel like she wants me to fall back asleep in order to connect. Problem is.. I don't want to go back to sleep. Any tips are appreciated!
That's how we got into this position.
The TRUTH will set you free.
Not faith.
Not a good husband.
Not belif in God.
The TRUTH.
If faith, God, and marriage are not TRUTH for you, there isn't any helping you. You are already lost and you understand Q only partially. This movement isn't simply some political action plan, it is a spiritual awakening.
If you think that lying to people "for their own good" is biblical then you should take a remedial English class.
Even taking into account the fact that you're wrong about the basic premise of your statement (e.g. that I think it's biblical to lie to people) it's still very ODD that you believe that a remedial English class is in order. One would think that a remedial THEOLOGY class would have been the more logical choice. Or perhaps you could have employed sarcasm and said, "You should take a remedial JERK class! Burn!"
I just can't get it out of my mind that you suggested a remedial English class. It's so very odd. But, maybe, it just so very.....you?
God.
Faith.
Marriage as ordained by God.
These things are good. They are biblical. They are not lies.
A remedial English class is best for people who spell "belief" as "belif", as you did.
Lying to your wife because of what you think she can or can't handle it is not biblical.
Telling the truth no matter how it hurts people is biblical.
You can tell the truth without sharing all the gory details.
But pretending there isn't evil so people feel better is how we got into this situation.
I had higher expectations when I chose the woman I'm spending the rest of eternity with. You're advising men to marry weak fools they don't respect. Just because it worked for you doesn't mean it's sound advice.