My wife was a 15 year old girl once and I trust that she understood moral behavior. Some girls just want the money and the attention more than their virtue.
Im not saying it's not predatory just that it's not pedophilia. Pedophiles rape children. Children can't get pregnant. Industry sluts pimped for deals need abortions. They are sexually mature.
I understood like consequence and sexual decisions and grown ass responsibility at 15. I worked nights til close bc my dad was outta work. I brought home food for my brothers all the time and i bought them Christmas presents. I was an adult myself morally already at 15. Most people are.
i was a girl of aget 15 once too and thought i wanted sex and experiences. took years to realize a lot of what happened to me wasn’t right, i didn’t really want to do things once we got started, or got to a point where i was too scared to say anything, and forcefully made to either continue or do MORE things. the guys of course were older and stronger. u do things at that age because u don’t know any better and everyone else you know is supposedly doing it that’s how the mind of a child works. as a child entering thay situation, u truly don’t think things will take the turns that they can and often do take. you end up trusting this person, oh they want to be intimate with me they must care about me they wouldn’t hurt me!!!
i couldn’t admit i was raped and forced into things (even by long term boyfriends) until i was in my late 20s. i’m barely 30 now. it takes a long time for trauma to settle in or even realize what has been done to you especially when you THOUGHT you wanted it. i knew these situations i had been in made me feel bad, made me scared, hurt me, made me cry after and feel used and dirty, but at that young age i thought that’s just what sex was and how it always is. it took a boyfriend doing it to me and doing self reflection YEARS after the incidents, to really realize this shit is wrong! and when it gets to the parts you don’t want to do or are uncomfortable with or scared of and then held down or forced down and roughly man handled etc…. no that is not consent and that is not what you wanted. it’s scary being young and with someone stronger and older in that setting you’re scared to scream for help or run out of the room or do anything to protect yourself because when you try to stop they get mad and more mean and more forceful and it only gets worse from there. it’s also scary because you know you will get in trouble by parents for being honest about being sexually involved when you still are a child. you have nowhere to turn to really unless you have super understanding parents, but it’s so confusing when you truly think people doing it care about you in some way because you were intimate. girls are wired in such a different way than guys and being physically intimate often in our minds means so much more than it does to men. it’s even worse when you’re young and confused and impressionable! tldr…. you are a still child at 15 period.
I understand that. But at 14-15 I had a much older man grooming me. He groomed others and is a pedo. I understand that pedo means little girls, not teens. He has a system to groom little girls and I kind of knew at the time. It really didn’t all click, because I was 15. I was extremely intelligent, my reading and foreign languages were through the roof and I was creative. But I was very young and still a child. I did not understand like I do now. I did not and could not understand the way I did when I was 18-20. That is why there is such thing as statutory rape. If you prey on someone you KNOW doesn’t fully understand, that’s rape. 15 is mentally a child. 15 year olds can have responsibilities and even help support their household, but they are still children.
Nah men aren't slapping those girls' psychology or groping their wisdom. Their hips are wide and round and their breasts are full and their skin is smooth. I understand what you're saying, which is why i said "I'm not saying it isn't predatory" but it is still totally nothing whatsoever in the realm of pedophilia.
If you show a heterosexual man a sexually presenting teenager all of the sex boxes are checked in the reptile brain. Obviously that's a porous spectrum varying by type and individual but at a point as a teenager it's true of all women. That same display is, i imagine anyway, disgusting and enraging if there's no biological signals of receptivity to impregnation and nursing. I know people were quite enraged by Cuties for example.
Many teens’ breasts aren’t fully developed until 16-17. Not me nor anyone I knew presented as a fully formed female. We were gangly, flat things. Looking at 14-15 as an adult now, they appear to be little children. I am shocked to know my friend’s kids are that age and they look 10. I’m only 27.
My wife was a 15 year old girl once and I trust that she understood moral behavior. Some girls just want the money and the attention more than their virtue.
Im not saying it's not predatory just that it's not pedophilia. Pedophiles rape children. Children can't get pregnant. Industry sluts pimped for deals need abortions. They are sexually mature.
I understood like consequence and sexual decisions and grown ass responsibility at 15. I worked nights til close bc my dad was outta work. I brought home food for my brothers all the time and i bought them Christmas presents. I was an adult myself morally already at 15. Most people are.
i was a girl of aget 15 once too and thought i wanted sex and experiences. took years to realize a lot of what happened to me wasn’t right, i didn’t really want to do things once we got started, or got to a point where i was too scared to say anything, and forcefully made to either continue or do MORE things. the guys of course were older and stronger. u do things at that age because u don’t know any better and everyone else you know is supposedly doing it that’s how the mind of a child works. as a child entering thay situation, u truly don’t think things will take the turns that they can and often do take. you end up trusting this person, oh they want to be intimate with me they must care about me they wouldn’t hurt me!!!
i couldn’t admit i was raped and forced into things (even by long term boyfriends) until i was in my late 20s. i’m barely 30 now. it takes a long time for trauma to settle in or even realize what has been done to you especially when you THOUGHT you wanted it. i knew these situations i had been in made me feel bad, made me scared, hurt me, made me cry after and feel used and dirty, but at that young age i thought that’s just what sex was and how it always is. it took a boyfriend doing it to me and doing self reflection YEARS after the incidents, to really realize this shit is wrong! and when it gets to the parts you don’t want to do or are uncomfortable with or scared of and then held down or forced down and roughly man handled etc…. no that is not consent and that is not what you wanted. it’s scary being young and with someone stronger and older in that setting you’re scared to scream for help or run out of the room or do anything to protect yourself because when you try to stop they get mad and more mean and more forceful and it only gets worse from there. it’s also scary because you know you will get in trouble by parents for being honest about being sexually involved when you still are a child. you have nowhere to turn to really unless you have super understanding parents, but it’s so confusing when you truly think people doing it care about you in some way because you were intimate. girls are wired in such a different way than guys and being physically intimate often in our minds means so much more than it does to men. it’s even worse when you’re young and confused and impressionable! tldr…. you are a still child at 15 period.
Ehh i have to disagree. You're talking about actually being sexually assaulted there not saying "want fame will suck dick."
I understand that. But at 14-15 I had a much older man grooming me. He groomed others and is a pedo. I understand that pedo means little girls, not teens. He has a system to groom little girls and I kind of knew at the time. It really didn’t all click, because I was 15. I was extremely intelligent, my reading and foreign languages were through the roof and I was creative. But I was very young and still a child. I did not understand like I do now. I did not and could not understand the way I did when I was 18-20. That is why there is such thing as statutory rape. If you prey on someone you KNOW doesn’t fully understand, that’s rape. 15 is mentally a child. 15 year olds can have responsibilities and even help support their household, but they are still children.
Nah men aren't slapping those girls' psychology or groping their wisdom. Their hips are wide and round and their breasts are full and their skin is smooth. I understand what you're saying, which is why i said "I'm not saying it isn't predatory" but it is still totally nothing whatsoever in the realm of pedophilia.
If you show a heterosexual man a sexually presenting teenager all of the sex boxes are checked in the reptile brain. Obviously that's a porous spectrum varying by type and individual but at a point as a teenager it's true of all women. That same display is, i imagine anyway, disgusting and enraging if there's no biological signals of receptivity to impregnation and nursing. I know people were quite enraged by Cuties for example.
Many teens’ breasts aren’t fully developed until 16-17. Not me nor anyone I knew presented as a fully formed female. We were gangly, flat things. Looking at 14-15 as an adult now, they appear to be little children. I am shocked to know my friend’s kids are that age and they look 10. I’m only 27.