Whenever I relay these issues to my wife she dismisses them with "15 year olds know what they're doing" and "you know what you're doing at 14." She's right. These allegations are nothingburger distractions from actually raping actual children. Using the same word for a teenager who can bear children and a little kid that has bo puberty at all is twisted and weird and discredits any movement toward protecting actual innocents
Werent you all like 13 when you took your oath to christ and a church and all the grownups and family said you were your own moral agent now? Or were bar mitvahed and called a man? It's hyperbolic and disingenuous.
My wife was a 15 year old girl once and I trust that she understood moral behavior. Some girls just want the money and the attention more than their virtue.
Im not saying it's not predatory just that it's not pedophilia. Pedophiles rape children. Children can't get pregnant. Industry sluts pimped for deals need abortions. They are sexually mature.
I understood like consequence and sexual decisions and grown ass responsibility at 15. I worked nights til close bc my dad was outta work. I brought home food for my brothers all the time and i bought them Christmas presents. I was an adult myself morally already at 15. Most people are.
i was a girl of aget 15 once too and thought i wanted sex and experiences. took years to realize a lot of what happened to me wasn’t right, i didn’t really want to do things once we got started, or got to a point where i was too scared to say anything, and forcefully made to either continue or do MORE things. the guys of course were older and stronger. u do things at that age because u don’t know any better and everyone else you know is supposedly doing it that’s how the mind of a child works. as a child entering thay situation, u truly don’t think things will take the turns that they can and often do take. you end up trusting this person, oh they want to be intimate with me they must care about me they wouldn’t hurt me!!!
i couldn’t admit i was raped and forced into things (even by long term boyfriends) until i was in my late 20s. i’m barely 30 now. it takes a long time for trauma to settle in or even realize what has been done to you especially when you THOUGHT you wanted it. i knew these situations i had been in made me feel bad, made me scared, hurt me, made me cry after and feel used and dirty, but at that young age i thought that’s just what sex was and how it always is. it took a boyfriend doing it to me and doing self reflection YEARS after the incidents, to really realize this shit is wrong! and when it gets to the parts you don’t want to do or are uncomfortable with or scared of and then held down or forced down and roughly man handled etc…. no that is not consent and that is not what you wanted. it’s scary being young and with someone stronger and older in that setting you’re scared to scream for help or run out of the room or do anything to protect yourself because when you try to stop they get mad and more mean and more forceful and it only gets worse from there. it’s also scary because you know you will get in trouble by parents for being honest about being sexually involved when you still are a child. you have nowhere to turn to really unless you have super understanding parents, but it’s so confusing when you truly think people doing it care about you in some way because you were intimate. girls are wired in such a different way than guys and being physically intimate often in our minds means so much more than it does to men. it’s even worse when you’re young and confused and impressionable! tldr…. you are a still child at 15 period.
Whenever I relay these issues to my wife she dismisses them with "15 year olds know what they're doing" and "you know what you're doing at 14." She's right. These allegations are nothingburger distractions from actually raping actual children. Using the same word for a teenager who can bear children and a little kid that has bo puberty at all is twisted and weird and discredits any movement toward protecting actual innocents
Werent you all like 13 when you took your oath to christ and a church and all the grownups and family said you were your own moral agent now? Or were bar mitvahed and called a man? It's hyperbolic and disingenuous.
My wife was a 15 year old girl once and I trust that she understood moral behavior. Some girls just want the money and the attention more than their virtue.
Im not saying it's not predatory just that it's not pedophilia. Pedophiles rape children. Children can't get pregnant. Industry sluts pimped for deals need abortions. They are sexually mature.
I understood like consequence and sexual decisions and grown ass responsibility at 15. I worked nights til close bc my dad was outta work. I brought home food for my brothers all the time and i bought them Christmas presents. I was an adult myself morally already at 15. Most people are.
i was a girl of aget 15 once too and thought i wanted sex and experiences. took years to realize a lot of what happened to me wasn’t right, i didn’t really want to do things once we got started, or got to a point where i was too scared to say anything, and forcefully made to either continue or do MORE things. the guys of course were older and stronger. u do things at that age because u don’t know any better and everyone else you know is supposedly doing it that’s how the mind of a child works. as a child entering thay situation, u truly don’t think things will take the turns that they can and often do take. you end up trusting this person, oh they want to be intimate with me they must care about me they wouldn’t hurt me!!!
i couldn’t admit i was raped and forced into things (even by long term boyfriends) until i was in my late 20s. i’m barely 30 now. it takes a long time for trauma to settle in or even realize what has been done to you especially when you THOUGHT you wanted it. i knew these situations i had been in made me feel bad, made me scared, hurt me, made me cry after and feel used and dirty, but at that young age i thought that’s just what sex was and how it always is. it took a boyfriend doing it to me and doing self reflection YEARS after the incidents, to really realize this shit is wrong! and when it gets to the parts you don’t want to do or are uncomfortable with or scared of and then held down or forced down and roughly man handled etc…. no that is not consent and that is not what you wanted. it’s scary being young and with someone stronger and older in that setting you’re scared to scream for help or run out of the room or do anything to protect yourself because when you try to stop they get mad and more mean and more forceful and it only gets worse from there. it’s also scary because you know you will get in trouble by parents for being honest about being sexually involved when you still are a child. you have nowhere to turn to really unless you have super understanding parents, but it’s so confusing when you truly think people doing it care about you in some way because you were intimate. girls are wired in such a different way than guys and being physically intimate often in our minds means so much more than it does to men. it’s even worse when you’re young and confused and impressionable! tldr…. you are a still child at 15 period.
Ehh i have to disagree. You're talking about actually being sexually assaulted there not saying "want fame will suck dick."