Liberals are taught that their parents were supposed to be perfect. It's because they were actual humans with faults that the kids are now human with faults. Only liberals blow it up big time and their faults are suddenly defining them and holding them back (from whatever they failed in life). As a parent, I can tell you I a screwing up my kids. I can't help it. I'm human.
I think many marriages fail when women go through menopause. When those hormones change, we become depressed, unsettled, gain weight, and shorter tempered. I think women blame their husbands instead of menopause (or peri menopause), and the husbands don't see that their wives are going through a change of both hormones and identity. Kids are growing or grown, we realize we will not be having more kids and are getting older. Men don't go through that because their fertility doesn't really change (look at Mick Jagger having kids in his 70's) so they don't understand. If we all had more patience and tolerance (a great liberal hijacked word) we could figure out 90% of the problems are because we are human. Get over it. There, just saved the liberals lots of money and put therapists out of business.