This decision can have such long term ramifications. I don’t mean to sound harsh but this is going to affect me now and I am stunned she did this without even consulting me. She knows how strong I feel about this and we could have talked about this together.
I know why she got the vaccine and I know her hands were tied. She didn’t want to get it and I would have held her hand and went through all lawsuits possible to get justice.
I might not be able to have kids with her.
May have to find another woman you can trust... and that can have your children with you.
This one you have now has 1-1/2 strikes going against her and you’re not even married yet.
I agree. You need a woman who will honor your wishes.
Agreed and I’m a woman— marriage is a partnership and covenant— if she went behind your back knowing your stance she isn’t a person who will put her marriage/ spouse/ kids first over pressure from outside sources— this is why many marriages fail— I’ve been married 31 years and we disagree but the good of the unit is the final decision— no major life changing decisions without discussion and mutual understanding and agreement— jobs are a dime a dozen now so if she used that excuse— bs— if she just buckled to peer pressure — you don’t want her raising your kids
🙏 God Bless You & Women Like You, Jackjet10! 🙏
Well gotta say I was married at 19 and stayed 15 years but he refused to be a partner and consistently did things behind my back ( purchases etc ) — I told him it was disrespectful to me and made me know he had no regard for our partnership— for years— I left ( bad for kids but did it anyway) remarried and prior to current marriage made a pact to NEVER divorce— discuss- disagree - resolve and respect- works— not easy but has to be a pact that’s upheld Meanwhile kid from first marriage has been married 15 years because I told him this has to be for life - it’s not a throwaway covenant that it’s become — destroys kids and most kids nowadays parents don’t even marry — so sad
Good correct comment ..woman here too ! Totally 100 percent agree
Agreed 100% fren
Yes! Been married one time, and we are still together after 33 years. Kids are grown and on their own. Now it's just us and pups. Have to talk even if it becomes heated discussions. Once your done discussing it's over and you move on. Don't hide or keep anything from each other, be open books.
My wife has been this way too. We argue and fight, but family health and wellbeing second only to God.
She comes from a matriarchical family, as do I and I was a middle child (peace, peace everywhere I must make!)
When it comes down to it, though. Safety first, God first, Family.