This decision can have such long term ramifications. I don’t mean to sound harsh but this is going to affect me now and I am stunned she did this without even consulting me. She knows how strong I feel about this and we could have talked about this together.
I know why she got the vaccine and I know her hands were tied. She didn’t want to get it and I would have held her hand and went through all lawsuits possible to get justice.
I might not be able to have kids with her.
Rather apologize after the fact instead of having the discussion before hand and given the chance to make a different decision. So in other words it's what she wanted to do in the first place because she didn't say anything upfront, and figures she will be forgiven after the deed was done and can't be changed.
Yup. Definitely a red flag from someone you are planning on marrying.
Asking for forgiveness instead of permission. I forgive you now pack your shit.