This decision can have such long term ramifications. I don’t mean to sound harsh but this is going to affect me now and I am stunned she did this without even consulting me. She knows how strong I feel about this and we could have talked about this together.
I know why she got the vaccine and I know her hands were tied. She didn’t want to get it and I would have held her hand and went through all lawsuits possible to get justice.
I might not be able to have kids with her.
If she'll do this behind your back, what else will she do behind your back?
I get that maybe she felt like she had no choice, but she could have at least had the honesty and courage to tell you before she got it.
It comes down to respect— no one who has respect for another would do such— enough said.
Correct ..respect and loyalty is ...LOVE..she failed at both! Saying I love you is like saying I hate you, just different emotions ..my Fren , I’m a female , I’m also a Marriage family therapist .if you don’t run from this , I’ll See you in a few years! Be grateful that you aren’t married .. you are already making excuses for her deceptive betrayal..”..you said “ I understand why she did it “ I hear that with infidelity issues a lot !
“Her hands were tied” . Her hands are supposed to be tied to you not the establishment ! So her job and money were important enough to her to make the decision to be disloyal to you ....you mention ..she could have spoken to you first ..so you are setting up yourself to dismiss this . You will here I’m so sorry , I didn’t want you to worry , I knew what you would say bla bla .. family turned against each other in other times in history, without TRUST you do not have a commitment....I suggest you listen to WHAT you said and understand that you need to dig deep into your own heart and soul because you are already making excuses for betrayal , disloyalty and STUPIDITY . Dear God man , let that sink in !
Pls OP listen to the above comment if you can't hear any other! I'm writing from experience. I ignored the small betrayals, thinking I was being a good husband. I want to go back in time just to kick the ever living shit out of my younger self for ignoring all the red flags! If you made a post about your misgivings, that should tell you that your situation isn't right.
I agree