I don’t think the natural instinct of men is to punch a woman who punches them. The instinct is to push them back. If that doesn’t work, then the instinct is to catch their wrists and simply hold them still to calm them down. If they are still flailing about, spitting, biting, swinging fists, then possibly one punch. But even then most men don’t actually need to punch a woman to restrain them.
It’s also dangerous, I think, to tell boys they have permission to hit women in certain situations because at the moment in our society the laws are so biased that even if it was justified, the police and the courts won’t see it that way. It’s not really about what is fair or moral here, it’s about the best way to navigate a tyrannical bureaucratic state that applies laws differently to white men then any other race.
You're right, of course, and fleeing from or physically restraining a woman assaulting a man is the best option from a legal and maybe even a moral standpoint too. I am just sick of seeing women get away with assaulting men without a consequence because men are taught they can't hit women back.
When I see a man give back exactly what he got like what was shown in this video I just don't feel sorry for that woman at all. A shared moral code of decency only works when the men AND the women are behaving decently.
The social contract goes out the window when you decide to use your pussy pass to break it. You swing on someone then it's done. You are now in primal territory because you couldn't use your big evolved brain to solve the situation. Doesn't even matter how strong or weak your attack is. A physical attack means it's caveman time.
I don’t think the natural instinct of men is to punch a woman who punches them. The instinct is to push them back. If that doesn’t work, then the instinct is to catch their wrists and simply hold them still to calm them down. If they are still flailing about, spitting, biting, swinging fists, then possibly one punch. But even then most men don’t actually need to punch a woman to restrain them.
It’s also dangerous, I think, to tell boys they have permission to hit women in certain situations because at the moment in our society the laws are so biased that even if it was justified, the police and the courts won’t see it that way. It’s not really about what is fair or moral here, it’s about the best way to navigate a tyrannical bureaucratic state that applies laws differently to white men then any other race.
You're right, of course, and fleeing from or physically restraining a woman assaulting a man is the best option from a legal and maybe even a moral standpoint too. I am just sick of seeing women get away with assaulting men without a consequence because men are taught they can't hit women back.
When I see a man give back exactly what he got like what was shown in this video I just don't feel sorry for that woman at all. A shared moral code of decency only works when the men AND the women are behaving decently.
The social contract goes out the window when you decide to use your pussy pass to break it. You swing on someone then it's done. You are now in primal territory because you couldn't use your big evolved brain to solve the situation. Doesn't even matter how strong or weak your attack is. A physical attack means it's caveman time.