OP isnt wrong. Home school can totally be problematic if its treated secondary and without obligation.

I've met some home schooled kids that were a complete mess because the parents gave up on them.

I've also met some public school kids that were given up on as well; also a mess.

I've met private schooled kids that were complete liberal sinkholes, complete void of conscience.

I went to a private Christian school, and later on many different public schools across the country.

I can safely say that there is no absolute perfect solution, but that any independent path you take will require extra work for success - especially at times when its inconvenient for you.

Tell ya what, let's keep talking about how were all wrong and no ones experiences have any merit. If you've been paying attention, the devolving public discourse into a nonconclusive result is exactly the divisiveness the Cabal wants.

Man, this place is a real pit on the weekends... 😔