Never mind that I'm an antitheist but with a particular demographic any mention of 'Gods will' or any such will instantly loose you any argument.......
May not be too popular a thing to say with many here but it is very much true so it bears mentioning as it is sorta in the same vein as Trump never using 'politician speak' or big words, the whole point of communicating is to get the point across and anything that gets in the way of that just means that you have failed at communicating that point.....
After having zealous Christians push their philosophy on me for my whole life while doing some very unloving things to me, the whole Christian religion thing was ruined because of hypocrisy. It still is. BUT..to clarify...I learned rhat a relationship with God's love, with Jesus, is a separate matter. Through grace, I found that relationship in 2012. So when people come at me using certain terms, it is off-putting until I find out what the person is really like and what judgements and labels they are applying to others. In other words, what you are like, speaks far more than what you say. In many cases, it is better to just say ' meditate on what created you and come to an understanding that you continue to matter to that source ' If a person thinks creation is not divine, you will not reach them speaking of God. A person with no sense of wonder about things, does not believe. On the other hand, a pagan lover of nature and invoker incantations to benefit other people, very well understands the spirituality of creation. Be careful not to lump them together with those who have chosen Lucifer as their deity. It is a choice, choosing Dark powers to use. Or invoking The Light. Anyone who invokes The Light is aware of God. They are very close to being able to take it further and understand Jesus' part in things.