Not everyone can be defined into an absolute like what you would see in movie villains and heroes.

It's important to remember this. What you described is an archetype used by the Cabal in Hollywood. With these basic dualities they force us to take sides. The two party system exists on many levels.

Thank you for sharing your own life experience. It's too easy for someone to come off "holier than thou" online. I feel that the more we are open about our basic shortcomings, the more humble we will become as a community. To me, this is when true learning can take place.