I have a very intelligent cousin who was married, had a child, and then decided he would figure out he's really a woman. He does not make an attractive "woman" at all. He skews the Bible's scriptures to fit his needs and to tell us we must accept it. I have no contact with him, thankfully, but he has always looked down his not-so-feminine nose at our side of the family. He used to be based a very long time ago, but then he married a blue-haired type and goodness knows what their son is being raised as. :( His wife has an adopted daughter who's a lesbian, so dysfunction has a home there.