I don’t. I want a man who keeps himself in shape, wants to be involved with his family, and to support and protect them. I want a man who values a wife nurturing and teaching their children and creating a warm and nurturing home. A man who is okay with his wife working, if that is what she wants, but won’t depend on her to support the family. The family should be one of both partners supporting each other and dividing the work. Sadly most men today are lazy, couch potatoes, who are self centered dolts. The worst thing that happened to the family was women going to work.