We moved out of Hawaii to get away from the mandatory testing/vaccine. For the holidays we’re staying in a more free state and we were invited to my aunts house nearby for Christmas morning. Enter my cousin (aunt’s daughter) two weeks before Christmas, having decided she wants to spend Christmas with her family this year but refusing to spend time around unvaccinated people. She came to the “compromise” of mandatory testing. Rather than make a fuss I simply pulled my family out of the situation and said we’d be spending Christmas morning by ourselves.
My aunt wasn’t very happy with me since she offered to provide the covid test. Everyone else is going along with the testing protocol, though they’re PISSED. My husband is fully supportive of pulling out.
I’ve never taken the PCR test and will likely need to do so to get back in the country in February. My aunt is accusing me of being selective of the test. I explained that a government mandated test to return home from my friends wedding when the arrangements were made pre-restriction is quite different than my entitled cousin demanding that I test to prove I’m worthy of Christmas morning. I told her that if I went, I wouldn’t enjoy myself. I’d be resentful and I wouldn’t have a good time.
Don’t let the rona ruin your holidays people. I’d rather have fun on my baby’s first Christmas!
While I’d be morally in the right, my cousins have put my aunt through hell the past few years—she was forced to get vaccinated to see her grandchildren. She’s hardly seen her own kids. I don’t really want to be the person who says she shouldn’t see her daughter, even if her daughters being a bitch about it, and I don’t need to be there anyway.
Then, don't give it another thought and have a great Christmas!
^^^ You don't owe them anything or any explanation.
true, if asked, simply state, I don't feel welcome at this family event.
You're probably right but I would suggest making that point to your aunt since she seems upset with you over all this.