I feel the same. All the important support members of her family died too soon. Her Dad, Uncle Robert, brother John John, and then her mother.

Her Uncle Ted, who died 12 years ago, became her surrogate 'godfather'. How did his influence affect her? He was severely compromised and untrustworthy.

She had vast wealth, little support system, and was raised to pay no attention to her looks, so she did nothing to make herself look feminine or pretty, leaving her vulnerable to be scooped up by someone who might have been less than a suitable match.

How much did her husband who was not of her Catholic faith but of the J*wish faith affect how she saw herself?